September 13, 2012 by
Categories: Miscellaneous

23 years ago today, my brothers were born. It was not until recently (within the past few years) that I realized the significance of this day.

My relationship with each of my brothers has evolved from that of squabbling siblings to becoming each other’s confidantes, friends, and family. I do not know what I would do without them in my life today.

The relationships that we share with our siblings are unique. They are the people who have walked life with us….who

have witnessed the ups and downs of our families…who we can connect with on a special level. I cherish the conversations that I have with my brothers in which I can simply say “remember when” and the connection is instant.

I know that I am not the only person to feel this way. I have talked with many of my friends and even my clients about their relationships with their siblings.

As we grow up, it becomes harder to maintain this connection. We graduate, get a job, and sometimes move away. I want to encourage you to reach out to your sibling today and say hello and that you are thinking about them.

Today, I am going to text/call/Facebook my brothers to wish them a happy birthday and to connect.

Please feel free to share a fond memory/story about one  (or more) of your siblings. We enjoy your comments!



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One Thought About Brothers

  • Randi
    September 13, 2012 at 8:55 pm Reply

    I can say, without doubt, that the relationship the three of you have cultivated is very authentic, funny, tender, supportive and unwavering. There are too many stories about the three of you from the last 23 years… In this very moment, I am sitting with a smile – recalling fondly, many side splitting outbursts of laughter shared by the 3 of you. I love you and am extremely proud of you, Randi

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